tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-86079168428173204032024-03-12T23:00:14.168-07:00Spruce Eagle PoetMusings from Neal Lemery, an Oregon Coast writer, poet,
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and a bit of a guitar playerTristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.comBlogger419125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-84536465924097596852019-08-19T16:02:00.002-07:002019-08-19T16:02:22.696-07:00Those Lazy, Hazy, Crazy Days of Summer<div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; line-height: 18.399999618530273px; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> <b>Those Lazy, Hazy, Crazy Days of Summer<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;">By Neal Lemery<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> When I was a kid, Nat King Cole made this a popular song, and the lyrics still seem to sum up summertime on the Oregon coast, with an increasingly strong emphasis on the “crazy”. My good intentions this year were lots of reading on the deck, working in my flowers and vegetables, and plenty of time for friends, taking it easy. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> Summertime is paved with good intentions, yet the calendar has filled up with friends and relatives who live in other states “just dropping by”, numerous parades, festivals, concerts and fairs, and a steady pace of casual get togethers. The idle hours of reading on the deck by my flowers has become a rare hour here and there between all of the scheduled and unplanned activities. The dread of being caught in bumper to bumper traffic on the highway and too many people at my favorite haunts has cut into my summer plans, motivating me to cross off a number of calendared “fun” to dos. Instead, my reading chair on the deck is my refuge, my hiding place from the mob. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> We paid the price for a visit to a friend’s open garden tour with an hour and a half of stop and go traffic on a Saturday afternoon. What were we thinking? We even skipped our customary treat at a local dessert shop as that would have required making a left turn. This is, after all, “No Left Turn Season” and tourists are definitely in their “bubble of oblivion”. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> My classic example of no thinking this summer occurred in front of me on the Wilson River Highway, with both lanes completely crammed full and traveling at 25 mph. The out of state car ahead of me suddenly skidded to a stop and pulled a U-turn, forcing the oncoming car and me to burn rubber. In their frenzy, they had to back up in order to fully turn around and head in the other direction, oblivious to the chorus of our collective repertoire of swear words. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> I fantasized about a robotic State Trooper flying a drone, forcing them over with tractor beams and issuing a multitude of traffic tickets. Can I apply for a “tourist tax” grant to supply that needed addition to local law enforcement? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> A friend calls the syndrome “tourist brain” and swears there is scientific evidence in support of that psychological condition. I know the local anecdotal evidence is overwhelming.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> I wonder what all the emergency responders call it, but I probably couldn’t repeat their phrases here. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> A long overdue class reunion challenged me to deal with a restaurant on full tourist overload, and spurred me to politely discourage a gaggle of out of town visitors intent on their ice cream cones at the Creamery. I’m not up for dealing with 10,000 people clamoring for sugar on a summer day, preferring a quiet conversation on the deck with some iced tea, no parking lots and lines. After all, I’ve planned ahead and have a nice stash of ice cream in my freezer.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;"> It’s time I take a deep breath, and look at the calendar. Time is on my side. It’s only a few weeks until Labor Day. That Tuesday is our traditional visit to our favorite beach, as we celebrate “Take Back the Beach” day, my favorite summer holiday. We might even be bold and make a left turn. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif;">8/14/2019<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-88275461329447170492017-08-08T17:40:00.000-07:002017-08-08T17:40:18.049-07:00Water Fills The Space It Finds Itself In<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: .5in;">
Water fills the space it finds
itself in.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>When
I recently found myself in an uncomfortable situation where I felt attacked, I
was, at first, drawn into anger, in many of the dimensions of that old and
familiar emotion.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Anger seems the first
place I go, when a situation spins out of order and sense.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My “buttons” get pushed and I am dragged off
in the direction of my reptilian, crisis oriented brain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The
dark clouds of raw, untamed, uncivilized emotions and untempered responses
obscure my usual cheery, gentile approach to the daily challenges of life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is a quick journey to the Dark Side.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I
want to just throw my thunderbolts, and shoot endless rounds of arrows into my
foe, throwing my weight around and relentlessly wage my own private war.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Old
fears show up, ghosts of anxieties past, spurred on by familiar inadequacies,
the voices of old and powerful critics, and the scars of self doubts.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My
rational, more civilized mind, just sits there, paralyzed by all the sabre rattling,
until I can take some deep breaths.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ll
need to allow myself to listen to my frontal lobes, home of reason, logic, and
good memories of my prior successes in peace making and problem solving.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Slowly,
thoughts of how I am a good problem solver come to mind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can entertain the idea that challenges in
my life don’t need me inputting launch codes into my own arsenal of
intercontinental ballistic missiles. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I
am capable, I remind myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, my
many talents at peace making and problem solving can be applied to the problem at
hand.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I
realize I haven’t faced this particular problem in the past, but I have worked
through things and lived to tell the tale.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I
just need to apply those hard-earned skills into this new challenge.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Filling
the challenge with my own unique abilities is what is needed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I need to be adaptable, flexible, and, yes,
methodical.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The reptilian reaction of
anger, rage, and war-making won’t work, and will only lay waste to
relationships and problem solving.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Change
and crisis, and that initial response of anger, spiced with overpowering
feelings of shame, guilt, inadequacy, failure, rejection, jealousy, and
revenge, all stirred up, makes for a toxic cocktail. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Sometimes,
I wonder if I’m addicted to that gut-wrenching response, and those stress
chemicals are my own kind of heroin. Or, am I just a human being, hardwired to
be the cranky alligator awakened from his nap.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yet,
when I can pull myself away from all that, and let my gut unclench, I can see
the forest for the trees, and I can adapt my problem solving skills, and get to
work.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I
pour myself into the shape of the problem, like water in an ice filled glass,
and fill in the spaces with my skills.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Once I take this approach, and take off my armor and lay down my sword,
and pick up my peacemaker tools, the solutions show up, and I can move ahead.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Let
it go,” I tell myself, pushing away the hot coals of rage and anger.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Give it time and this will play itself out.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>When
I slow down the war talk, and take my time in walking through the battleground,
I do better, and I start even liking myself. I begin to believe that this too
shall pass, and I don’t need to start World War III. Later, that seems a simple
truth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But, in my first response, I just
don’t see it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m only the ‘gator in the
swamp.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Life
does that, giving us opportunities to revisit a lesson, and dust off some old
tools. Again, I relearn the lesson and realize that not every affront and
perceived insult calls for my reptilian warrior mode.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“It’s
just life,” I remind myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I’ll get
through it, and move on.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I
can deal with this, and do that work well.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I
come to that, eventually, after I remind myself that I am like water, able to
fill the space I find myself in.<o:p></o:p></div>
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--Neal Lemery,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>August 8, 2017<o:p></o:p></div>
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--Neal Lemery, July 24, 2017<o:p></o:p></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-74776267124108296202017-06-17T09:10:00.001-07:002017-06-17T09:10:34.663-07:00Grieving<div class="MsoNormal">
<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="OLE_LINK2"></a><a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="OLE_LINK1"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 5;"> </span>Grieving<o:p></o:p></span></span></a></div>
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<br /></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;">
<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>They come into my life and then, too
early, they are gone.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And I mourn and
grieve, cry and moan.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am angry at my
loss, my pain, the void in my life as their sudden absence is a bleeding,
infected wound that never quite seems to heal.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;">
<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Grief dances its macabre and
bittersweet retinue of every emotion, taking fiendish joy in ambushing me when
I least expect it, when I am least able to cope with the pain.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;">
<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yet, deep down, I still carry their
light and their love, and sense their their soul, still resounding with me,
still an integral part of my life.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Why? What was so special about that
person that I am so profoundly affected by their passing? What was it about
them that reached me, touched my heart, and brought them so close to me, such
an essential part of my life, my own story?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>What is the lesson to be learned?<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I just read that plants emit light
frequencies in a part of the light spectrum that is invisible to our eyes, yet
photography is now able to record those images, those vibrations, and reveal
another dimension of the profound beauty and intricacies of these living
beings. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Is it that much of a stretch in
thinking that people also emit vibrations and frequencies of light that is
invisible to our eyes, yet sensed in a much deeper level by us, on a different,
yet intuitive, level. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“You are special.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You bring something into my life that is
beautiful, meaningful for me.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Attraction.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The law of attraction teaches us
that we attract to ourselves the emotions, the feelings, the vibrations that we
need.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And when we open ourselves to
those feelings, the presence of what we crave, then we become more complete,
and more able to live the life that we deeply desire.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We come closer to fulfilling our true purpose
in this life.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And when a special person leaves us,
there is a void, an emptiness, a loss.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Yet there is also the knowing, deep down, of what they have brought to
us in our all too brief time together.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>That memory serves us well, teaching us what we had needed and desired,
to be a better, more complete person.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>In that loss, that death, there are
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from.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When the class is over, only then
do we fully appreciate the lessons learned, the experience gained, the real
benefit of being present for the lesson, the experience. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>At the end of a particular journey,
the end of that special time when a special friend has come into my life and
walked with me, only then do I first realize what I have experienced, what we had
set out to learn, and how I needed to grow.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I look back, and only then see from where I have come, how far I have
traveled, and the name of the road I am on. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>These dear ones who have passed on, the
ones whose light I have needed along my own journey, have taught me great
lessons, and deeply impacted my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
find that when they are gone, only then do I start to fully realize the gifts
they have given me, the lessons they have taught me, and the special places
they have held in my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Only then do
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of their presence in my life. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Somehow, their teaching to me is not
complete until they are gone. Only then do I learn all the lessons they have
been teaching me. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Only then is the full spectrum of
the light they have shared revealed to me.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Only then can grief lead me to the
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;">--Neal Lemery
6/16/2017<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-80709992231445545792017-04-27T11:05:00.000-07:002017-04-27T11:05:19.592-07:00I Choose To Build<div class="MsoNormal">
<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="OLE_LINK2"></a><a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="OLE_LINK1"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span>I Build<o:p></o:p></span></span></a></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I can choose to do nothing, to embrace the status quo,
and not examine my own thinking, my own, old ways of doing things.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or, I can be the wrecking ball, the sour
voice of discontent when new ideas and new ways come my way. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Or, I can be the builder, using the solid, time tested
materials and ways that have worked in the past, and incorporate the new
energies, the new ideas, and make things better.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My choice.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“There
is no more neutrality in the world. You either have to be </span></span></span><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">part of the solution</span></b></span></span><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">, or you're going to be </span></span></span><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">part of the problem</span></b></span></span><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>--
attributed to Eldridge Cleaver. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My community is going through a lot of change now.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our downtown traffic pattern is being
completely revamped, and the streets and sidewalks are torn up.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The usual routines and paths are disrupted,
and our city bird is the construction crane. Construction worker orange and
raincoats is the new fashion statement.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I can curse the detours, the mud, the mess, or I can look
through that and see the beginnings of the new town plaza, the spots for new
street trees, and the better traffic flow that will come from this.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I choose to build, to make stronger, to help others on
their own path, so that they can achieve their dreams, and to find their path a
little easier.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And, I can join the voices embracing the new energies,
the vitality of a prosperous, active downtown area.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can be part of that, and be a builder.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’ve done my share of whining about what is lacking in my
home town. But, I am choosing to be a builder, not a destroyer, a part of the
solutions and not part of the problems.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>To that end, I’ve helped organize and host a monthly open
mic downtown on Saturday nights, providing a performance space for writers,
musicians, and other artists.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Part of
that work is joining others to bring gallery space for artists downtown, and
promote the creative arts.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’m a master gardener and have helped educate myself and
others on sustainable gardening and educating the community about being better
stewards of the land.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ve nurtured and
planted community garden space.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’m working on a foundation to help fund improvements to
local parks and recreation spaces.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And, I’ve spoken out in favor of our community library,
and worked on the campaign to renew its local funding. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’m not alone.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>This community is on the move, and change is on the wind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>New ideas, new projects are everywhere.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Nearly seventy of my neighbors just returned
from a ten day trip to China, having new experiences, learning about another
part of the world, and coming home with new ideas and a new international
perspective.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Today is Poem In Your Pocket Day, which encourages us to
share an inspirational poem.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Here’s my
choice:<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; padding: 0in;">The Bridge Builder</span></i></span></span><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></i></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; letter-spacing: .3pt; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; padding: 0in; text-transform: uppercase;">BY </span></span></span><a href="https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems-and-poets/poets/detail/will-allen-dromgoole"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: windowtext; font-family: "Times New Roman"; letter-spacing: .3pt; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none; text-transform: uppercase; text-underline: none;">WILL ALLEN DROMGOOLE</span></span></span></a><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #505050; font-family: "Times New Roman"; letter-spacing: .3pt; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; padding: 0in; text-transform: uppercase;"> (1860-1934)<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">An old man going a lone highway,<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Came, at the evening cold and gray,<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">To a chasm vast and deep and wide.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Through which was flowing a sullen tide<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">The old man crossed in the twilight dim,<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">The sullen stream had no fear for him;<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">But he turned when safe on the other side<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">And built a bridge to span the tide.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“Old man,” said a fellow pilgrim near,<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“You are wasting your strength with building here;<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Your journey will end with the ending day,<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">You never again will pass this way;<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">You’ve crossed the chasm, deep and wide,<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Why build this bridge at evening tide?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">The builder lifted his old gray head;<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“Good friend, in the path I have come,” he said,<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">A youth whose feet must pass this way.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">To that fair-haired youth may a pitfall be;<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Good friend, I am building this bridge for him!”<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #404040; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Anthology of Verse</span></i></span></span><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #7f7f7f; font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">, </span></span></span><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">1931<span style="color: #404040;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Change is all around me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I could choose to be the stick in the mud, struggling against the tide,
holding fast to the old, the familiar.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Or, I could be part of the change, going with the flow, being one with
the river; and embracing the change.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The old ways can be comforting, certainly familiar. Yet,
will they be successful, meaningful as the world, as my community changes?<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">“The
civilization that is able to survive is the one that is able to adapt to the
changing physical, social, political, moral and spiritual environment in which
is finds itself.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(Leon Megginson, 1963.
quoted by Thomas Friedman, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Thank You For
Being Late, </i>2016, p. 298)<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I can be the bridge builder, the advocate for a better
community, or I can be the stick in the mud, and let the tide move against me,
leaving me rotting in the muck of the past, as the world passes by.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">---Neal Lemery,
4/27/2017<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-53229692491535684222017-03-20T10:15:00.000-07:002017-03-20T10:15:35.323-07:00The Young Prisoner's Rage<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It boils out of me, this rage against you, this struggle
I have on how to feel about me being the son, and you the father.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The bruised knuckles from hitting the wall,
again, with the full force of the rage, aching, yet all I want is to be numb,
and not feel the ache in my heart. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I stuff it down, push it deep, wanting to turn my heart
into stone.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Betrayed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Abandoned.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Neglected. I just want to be numb, and not
feel all that.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;">I’m trying to grow up, to
be healthy, mature, manly.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But without a
father, a healthy, good father, I am empty, hollow.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My soul is hungry for connection, yet the absence of my
dad, the silence, even worse, the indifference, tells me I am unworthy, I have
failed.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’m here in prison, doing time, labeled, categorized,
marked.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Wanting to be a healthy man, yet
I have stumbled, fallen, and became a criminal.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I hear my dad’s voice saying, again, of course you’re
worthless, you are trash, you are a criminal, and not worthy of my love, or
even my name.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You are not my son.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I denounce you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I reject you, my heir, my seed, my son. You
are not of my image, my spawn, my child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Be my dad, I had said, I had begged.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Love me, embrace me, take me by the hand and
show me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Show me how to be the son, the
man-child, a good man.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>But, no.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Rejection.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Shame, guilty, abandonment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am the throw away son.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Of course I am worthless.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I am the criminal, the felon, the prisoner.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Like you expected of me, I have proven how
worthless I am.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I guess you were right
when you said I was worthless.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You told
me I was trash and so here I am, a sack of garbage, the criminal unworthy of
you even acknowledging me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;">I
am not your son.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am trash.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You have no son.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>But, father, did you just try to love me, to guide me, to
hold me close, to be the parent, the father I needed? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I didn’t need much, just for you to love me, to accept
me, just to be your son.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I got lost, but you didn’t come find me, didn’t guide me,
didn’t hug me, didn’t parent me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You
threw me away, and I just want to go numb, and slam my fist into the wall, and
not feel it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You loved the bottle, the pipe, the pill, the
denial of my existence much more than what I needed from you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Undeserving, of no value, that’s the message you gave me,
again and again, until it sounded like the truth. Repeated, and repeated, so it
must be true.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>What else can I do, but rage.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I scream into the night, punch my fist into
the wall, look into the mirror and see only a worthless soul, unworthy of love,
unable to forgive, to honor myself, to see any good in myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I rage, so therefore I am worthless, trash.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A tight circle, self-fulfilling prophesy of
emptiness, garbage.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Is it too much to ask, that I can hear I am valued, that
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love?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Is it too much to ask that I hear you are proud of me? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You reject me, over and over again.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I get it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I am nothing in your eyes. I can never be the man I dare to dream of
being; I can never be the son worthy of your name, your love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>No, I am trash, garbage, a worthless sack of s**t.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My destiny must be to sit in my prison cell
and mean nothing to anyone else, is that what you think? Is that what you
want?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Is that what you desire your son
to be?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Slam, goes the fist into the wall, the pain somehow
justified, earned, because of who you think I am, how worthless I must really
be. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If only I could be loved, to hear
you say that word, to hold me tight and let me feel your love for me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>But, no.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Rejection, shame, abandonment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Is
that what you want for me?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Is that why
you brought me into the world, to throw me away?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>All I want is to be loved, to be seen as a son, as a soul
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yet, I am rejected, unloved, unworthy, undeserving of the
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And when I have a son, how will I treat him, what will I
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And, so I rage. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And , so I rage.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;">----Neal Lemery<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3/20/2017<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-87784674111264891672017-02-05T12:35:00.000-08:002017-02-05T12:35:23.828-08:00My Ticket to Prison<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 5;"> </span>My
Ticket to Prison<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It was my ticket to prison.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Following the guard’s direction from the
loudspeaker, I pushed the ticket machine button. “128” was printed on what
looked like a raffle ticket for a drawing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Drive to the top of the parking lot,
park and then wait with the others until your number is called,” the faceless
stern voice commanded.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I soon found myself with the other
visitors.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We huddled together in the
early morning icy wind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After the two-hour
drive, it felt good to stand up, but the wind made me yearn for the shelter of
the gatehouse down the hill. It was surrounded by coils of ribbon wire,
overshadowed by the guard tower with the black, one way glass.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>One lady kindly asked me if this was
my first time here.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>She told me the routine, what to
expect, adding that it was a cold, heartless place to visit.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>She and her mother had been coming
to see her son for several years now, and it was always a hard thing to do.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“We’re his only connection to the
world, to family,” she said. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“It’s the only thing we can do for
him, coming here every week,” she said.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Her voice dropped and she looked
away.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I could see a tear in her eye.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Numbers 120 to 130,” the voice
crackled over the loudspeaker.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We moved hurriedly down the hill
into the gatehouse.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Paper money was
changed into dollar coins for the vending machines, and people took off their
jewelry, shoes and belts, and handed their driver’s licenses to the
guards.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>When my turn came, I identified who
I was seeing and then set off the metal detector.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Glasses, too.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>As directed, I moved, blindly,
sideways through the metal detector, satisfying the stern faced guard glaring
at me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We all had the back of our right
hand stamped, with invisible ink.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When
we left, a guard shined an ultraviolet light on our hands, making sure we
weren’t inmates, that we hadn’t switched places and were organizing a great
escape.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I reassembled myself and sat on a
wooden bench with some of my cohorts, waiting for our turn to walk in small
groups through another steel door and across the yard to the visitors’
building. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Once inside, I was directed to
several rows of plastic chairs and low tables, more appropriate for a fourth
grade classroom than a prison visiting room.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>There were a few vending machines on one wall, offering chips, sodas,
and coffee.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The room was dimly lit with a few
florescent bulbs and small barred windows near the ceiling.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The dark cement floor sucked up what little
light came through the windows.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;">A large modern painting of a tree leaned against a
gray wall, near a large chair on a platform, where a guard sat, staring out
over the assemblage of visitors. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>There was nothing else in the room
that resembled life on the outside, and I wondered if the painting hadn’t been
hung yet, simply because it was so out of place here.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We were grandmothers and aunts, a
few girlfriends, two guys who might be brothers of inmates, and a lawyer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He looked out of place, in his three piece
suit and large three ring binder.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He
paced and looked at his watch, anxious to get on with the rest of his day and
finish up his business with his client.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The rest of us had our prison visit
clothes on.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The rules said no blue
jeans, no blue shirts or jackets.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Blue
is the color of inmates here, and the prison wanted a clear distinction.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We waited, and waited some
more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>A few inmates came in, embracing
their loved ones and then sitting on the opposite side of the small
tables.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We waited some more, and I saw the
kindly mother and grandmother look at their watches and the big clock on the
wall.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I caught their eye and
shrugged.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They nodded and shrugged
back.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Finally, my young friend came out of
the side door.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He and all the other
inmates were clad in blue jeans and blue shirts, with blue lanyards and their
prison ID cards around their necks.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We hugged and took our seats.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I hadn’t seen my buddy for four
months, since he got sent upstate to adult prison, after serving all the time
he could at the youth prison where I go every week.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He’s got seven more years to go, and had to
move to adult prison when he turned twenty four.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>What got him here was something that
happened when he was thirteen, when life was crazy, chaotic, without guidance
and direction.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was arrested at
seventeen, and treated like an adult in court.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The system pounded on him, maxing
him out, making sure he got the presumptive sentences reserved for the worst of
people.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>But he’s not.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was a kid himself when he came to prison,
never been in school, never really parented and raised to be a healthy young
man.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The youth prison was good for
him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He finished school, and let his
curiosity lead him to becoming an expert gardener, craftsman, and artist.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He taught others, taking on leadership,
gaining the skills and confidence of a healthy, productive young man.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He’s everything you’d want a young man to be
in this world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We talked for the next hour and a
half, two friends catching up on our lives, and the news from the youth
prison.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>His dad died last month, a heart
attack ending a troubled life, leaving the relationship with the son in prison
still unresolved, still unhealed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
anger and bitterness now mixed up with grief, with the emptiness of not being
able to go to his father’s funeral, to take care of his widowed mother, and the
rage and violent life of the younger brother.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We tested out the vending machines’
offerings of soda and coffee.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Starbucks
has no worries about the competition here.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My friend has a good job, managing
the kitchen garden.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He’s ramped up the composting,
and is planning new crops for the summer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>His eyes twinkle as he tells me of his plans and the new watering system
he’s designing.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He’s saving his money for a
guitar.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Prison rules wouldn’t let him
bring his old guitar with him, but he’s scribbled out some new songs, and
another guy has let him borrow his guitar once in a while.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I can’t send him a guitar.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He has to buy it from the prison canteen.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“They worry that you’d send in drugs
with the guitar, you know.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We laughed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He’s too serious of a musician to think about
smuggling in drugs or being a criminal.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“There’s ‘yard night’ in the
summer,” he tells me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I’ll have my new
guitar by then.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You can bring your guitar with you,
and guys play and sing, and tell stories.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>They even barbeque and turn the prison yard into a house party, at least
for two hours on a hot summer night.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I don’t ask him much about life
here.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can tell he’s not wanting to
share, not wanting to explain the emptiness, the boredom. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He grins when he talks about the
botany book I sent him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>College level
stuff, and good for his mind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He reads
it every night, soaking up the science, the methodology.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He redraws the illustrations, creating new
works of art in his cell.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Last year, he petitioned the
Governor for clemency.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>About twenty
people added letters of endorsement, from the youth prison’s school principal
to most of the volunteers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The prison
staff weren’t allowed to endorse the petition, but loaded up their letters with
assessments and evaluations of what he’d accomplished.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We attached his portfolio of botany
illustrations, and photos of his wood carvings and wood burnings, and the
multi-layered wooden bowl that won a special blue ribbon at the county
fair.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We sent copies to legislators, and
we wrote to the Governor.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Nothing has happened with that, and
now he’s in this prison of 800 men, medium security for the next seven
years.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or, until the Governor might
decide that he needs to be out, needs to be working on his bachelor’s degree in
botany at Oregon State University, and creating fine works of art for the world
to enjoy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We didn’t talk about all that.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The silence from the Governor’s office lies
like a stone in my heart.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s too
painful for him, too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Seven years more
is a long, long time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The guard in the chair boomed out,
“Visiting is over.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Inmates to the
rear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Visitors to the front.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We stood, and I picked up our empty
coffee cups.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Awkwardly, we moved to the
end of the table, and hugged one last time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I’ll come again soon,” I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Oh, you’re busy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m doing fine,” he said.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He doesn’t lie well, and looked down
at his shoes.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I’m not too busy for you, son,” I
said. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I’ll be back,” I said. “You’re an
important guy to me, you know.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>For the second time that day, I saw
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And when I got back to my pickup,
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;">---Neal
Lemery 2/5/2017<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-88847654417791976572016-12-19T16:07:00.000-08:002016-12-19T16:07:34.280-08:00Simply Listening<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
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touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the
smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It is the
simple things in life that are often the most meaningful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>A young man and
I were working on his math.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He’s been
working hard and now the formulas and methodology of his algebra was making
sense to him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My tutoring today consisted
of listening to him explain his processes, and watch him work his problem,
applying his knowledge, and seeing him find the answers.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I think I
understand this now,” he said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Pride filled
his voice, and he gave me a seldom seen smile.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“What else do
you need to work on?” I said. “You’ve clearly got your math under control.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He looked down
at his shoes, then out the window.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His
Adam’s apple bobbed up and down, as he pondered my question.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A minute, then another passed without an
answer.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He cleared his
throat, finally cluing me in.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His
therapist needed him to make a list, a list of challenging events in his life,
times when he was abused, and was abusive to others.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>This would be
the last barrier to complete therapy and move on with his life, to becoming
free of what has burdened him, held him down. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He looked away,
tears filling his eyes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“It’s so hard,”
he said. “I can’t seem to get started.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
can’t write it down.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Hard because?”
I asked.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He fell silent,
still looking down.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A tear ran down his
cheek.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“It’s…. it’s
overwhelming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There’s just so much,” he
said.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We sat there,
letting the heavy words fill the air.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It
was hard for me to breathe, the air now thick with his emotions and the weight
of this task.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Take a
breath,” I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“This is a safe
place.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We’ll take this on together, and
work on it just like we do with math.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“In math, one
of the first steps is to write down the problem, give names to what you’re
working on,” I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“One step at a
time.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He looked at
me, and I nodded.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Another tear ran down
his cheek.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He took a deep breath, then
another, re-inspecting his shoes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A few
more minutes passed. He gave me a slight nod.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I can be the
writer today” I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I’ll be your
secretary.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He looked away,
over my shoulder, and started to speak, beginning his story with the last time
he was in a difficult situation, a time of chaos and pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I picked up my
pencil and began to write on the tablet we’d used for our math, starting a
fresh page. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He spoke almost in
a whisper. I leaned closer, barely able to hear his words.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The room was silent except for the
scratchings of my pencil against the paper, and his soft words, his voice
cracking and choking over them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I gulped, feeling
my own sense of revulsion, panic, horror, and angst build up in my gut, as he
told one story, then another, and another.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Working backwards
in his life, he moved quickly from one incident to the one before it, giving me
two or three sentences, names, ages, what happened, how he reacted, how he
felt.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At first, it seemed jumbled, but I
began to see the order, how he’d been preparing his story, rehearsing and
editing it in his mind, probably for months.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He spoke fast
enough that each story was only a line on my tablet, often just fragments of
sentences, a first name.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I wrote
quickly, finding myself near the bottom of page two before he took another
breath and looked down at his shoes.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Once, I had to
prod, a few words of encouragement.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His
look told me he thought I’d be a harsh judge for this story, condemning and
berating him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“It’s OK,” I
whispered.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“It happened, so it needs to
be on the list. No judging today.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He took a big
breath and let it out.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Another long
minute of silence.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The first time, I
can’t remember much,” he said.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I can’t remember,”
he finally said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I was two years old,
and there was something, something with a friend of my dad’s.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I don’t know, but
there’s something,” he said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“It’s OK,” I
said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“When you’re two, you probably
don’t remember a lot, at least consciously.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We talked about the
conscious brain and the subconscious, and how different parts of the brain have
different tasks, and work differently.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>And how we deal with trauma, and don’t deal with it very well. But, our
body remembers, in ways that aren’t always clear to us.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He nodded, relating
all of this to what he’d learned in therapy and his psychology classes, and in
all the thinking he’d been doing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He looked at the
list, shaking his head.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Wow, that’s a long
list,” he said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“A good list, “ I
said. “You’ve done good work today,” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Our time was coming
to an end, and I needed to leave.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I tore off the
pages I’d written, and handed them to him.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Here’s your list,”
I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“We’ve written it down, so you
don’t have to keep it in your head any more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>But, you’ll have it if you need it.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He looked at me,
penetrating deep into my eyes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Oh,” he said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You mean I don’t have to keep all that
inside of me, thinking about it all the time?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“No,” I said. “You
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for the day.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“It’s a reference,
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“And, once you’ve
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He nodded, and let
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“So, the problem,”
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I nodded, and he
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Just like a math
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Uh, huh,” I said.
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Yes, I can,” he
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Yes, I can.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;">---Neal
Lemery 12/19/2016<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-89866956726197778352016-12-10T07:38:00.002-08:002016-12-10T07:38:55.991-08:00Restringing Guitars and Young Men<div class="MsoNormal">
<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="OLE_LINK2"></a><a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="OLE_LINK1"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"> </span>Restringing Guitars and
Young Men<o:p></o:p></span></a></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Fridays are my day
at the local youth correctional facility.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>In the morning, I work in their garden, helping young gardeners tend to
their chickens, vegetable plots and herb gardens.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We plant, weed,
water, and harvest, and then preserve and dry the results.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Most every week, we cook, enjoying the bounty
of our work, and treating the young men to fresh, nutritious produce and the
concept of healthy nutrition and living. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The real gardening
comes in our conversations, the camaraderie of young and older gardeners,
working and learning together, truly being in community.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>They are learning
where food really comes from, and how to be invested in that process, being
self sufficient and healthy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
metaphor of the garden is not lost on them, as they work to become strong,
healthy, productive farmers of their lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I also work with
some of the young men individually, being the “surrogate parent” and being the
visitor they need and wouldn’t have otherwise.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I’m the “family” who shows up with some baked goods or candy, and just
visits for an hour.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sometimes, we play
games, but mainly, I just listen, offering the compassionate ear of the uncle
or dad who is missing in their lives.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’m tender and kind
to them, being the encouraging voice, the cheerleader, the supportive dad they
wouldn’t otherwise have.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Today, one of my
young men and I restrung one of the guitars there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is a “state” guitar, which means it’s the
guitar that gets played by those who don’t have their own instrument.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The guitar is played a lot, and replacing the
strings has become a regular task for me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;">The guitar gets loved to death, played hard by
lonely, frustrated fingers pouring out the emotions of the neglected and
abandoned, the incarcerated, the young men who have no other way of expressing
themselves. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m like that guitar, a
place where the emotions of these young men can have their voice, a willing
ear, an appreciative audience for what they need to say.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My guy has had a
rough year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He’s one of the lucky ones,
not serving a mandatory sentence, a guy who can walk out the door if he’s done
all his treatment, completed high school and shown he can be a responsible
young man.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He literally has
the keys to the front gate, but the old voices keep telling him he’s worthless,
and should be abandoned and left out for the trash man.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Like so many of the
young men here, being responsible and healthy is a new experience, and the fear
of going back into the world, and being around the family and friends who were
a big part of the bad times that brought him here, is one huge scary nightmare
of parole.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The thought of
being successful in life is a new idea.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>For most of their life, they’ve been told they are worthless,
failures.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My job is to be a spark of
encouragement, the mirror of their successes and self worth, to be the dad who
believes in them and is proud of who they are becoming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My job and the job
of the guitar are a lot alike.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My buddy has
derailed himself a number of times here, despite all his good work. The old
ways, the old voices still show up, beating him down with the whips of
shame<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>and guilt, the indifference to the
beauty of their young souls.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Today, though, he
moved ahead.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He took the initiative and
restrung the guitar, without much help from me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>With confidence, he completed the task, grinning as the new strings sang
out their song in his confident fingers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>His eyes twinkled with pride as he showed others the work he had
done.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK1;"><span style="mso-bookmark: OLE_LINK2;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We did more than
restring an old, well-used guitar.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We
restrung a young man and gave voice to the new, self-confident man now playing
his songs, happy with what he’s done and who he’s becoming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "times new roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Neal Lemery, retired Tillamook County Justice of the Peace,
has published a new book. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Homegrown
Tomatoes: Essays and Musings From My Garden </i>explores mentoring youth
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helping them grow strong and self-confident.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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offer his book for sale at the Five Rivers Coffee Roasters author panel and
book fair in Tillamook November 19 from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. <i>Homegrown
Tomatoes</i> is available on </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Homegrown-Tomatoes-Essays-Musings-Garden/dp/1537202952/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1478367947&sr=8-1&keywords=neal+lemery"><span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Amazon.com</span></a><span style="font-family: "times new roman";"> as an e-book and paperback.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "times new roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Lemery is the
author of <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Mentoring Boys to Men: Climbing
Their Own Mountains</i> and is a volunteer mentor at the Tillamook campus of
the Oregon Youth Authority. His book emphasizes community and enriching the
lives of young men, by being present in their lives, and offering them support
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "times new roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">He offers us hope in troubled times, and helps answer the
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: "times new roman";">“This new collection of short, powerful essays and poetry
took me by surprise, nevertheless. I found myself moved to tears, uplifted,
inspired, and even sometimes exalted as I read. I devoured </span><i style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">HomegrownTomatoes</i><span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: "times new roman";"> in one sitting. These musings will inspire readers
to look with new eyes at their own backyards and to dream of new ways to take
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Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-69357039261692451332016-10-30T19:37:00.001-07:002016-10-30T19:37:43.706-07:00The Revealing Otolith<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span>The Revealing Otolith<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> Heard at the </span>Tillamook Bay Watershed Council, October 25, 2016:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Therein lies the story.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The biologist, Dr. Daniel Bottoms, speaks about the
salmon in the river he’d studied for ten years, how they lived, and how their
habitat changed after dikes were removed and estuaries are regaining their
primordial way of life.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Research is showing that the assumed cycles of life and
old assumptions grew more complex. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Much is revealed in the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">otolith</i>, a bone found in the sensory organs, the “ears” of salmon.
It grows every day. A new layer of bone is added, much like a tree ring.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In each day, there is the record of the
nutrients consumed, growth, the salinity of the water.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Scientists analyze the rings and measure the amounts of
strontium, a telltale sign of salt water. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He talks of estuaries and restoration efforts, man trying
to undo what has been done in the last one hundred and fifty years, hoping to
bring back the number of salmon, strengthening species and the various runs in
a particular river and estuarine system.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Estuaries provide a varied mix of salt and fresh water, nutrients, and
food populations.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Oregon has twenty estuaries, ranging from a few miles to
148 miles on the mighty Columbia, from the ocean to the head of tidal
influence.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Within those systems, a wide
spectrum of salinity, and complex “detrital based food webs”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>What is learned is that within a species, within a particular
run of salmon on a particular river, there are up to six varieties of life
histories.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is diversity in numbers
and adaptability.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Resilience is directly
related to habitat, the more diverse the better. Both genetics and environment
are major players in their lives.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>In the Salmon<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>River estuary, north of Lincoln City, Oregon, various marshes have been restored
over a 30 year period.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In restored
areas, salmon tend to spend more time, and life histories become more
diverse.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Food becomes more plentiful and
diverse.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Depending on the environment, salmon can shift their life
behaviors, thus ensuring their survival and their success.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>In the Salmon River estuary, 70% of the Chinook
population has significantly benefitted from estuary restoration, but only 30%
of the coho have significantly benefitted.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Old hypotheses have been revised, and there are more
questions to be answered. All of the research reveals more of the complexity of
the life of salmon and more questions.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Tillamook Bay is now undergoing significant estuary
restoration, with 528 acres undiked and tide gates and other barriers
removed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This is the largest estuary
restoration project in Oregon. We aren’t sure what this will mean to salmon in
this watershed but the changes are significant.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Garamond;">Pathways to Resilience: Sustaining Salmon
Ecosystems in a Changing World, </span></i><span style="font-family: Garamond;">Bottom,
et al, Editors, (Oregon State University Sea Grant, 2011)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-33745525050232291012016-10-01T10:05:00.001-07:002016-10-01T10:05:36.625-07:00Defining Family<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"What IS
family, then?" The young man asked.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He's getting out
in less than a year, and we were talking about his plans for when he is
"out" and life no longer has the physical limits of being
"locked up".<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Going home is
not the most attractive of his choices.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>There, old ways, old relationships, and old expectations for how he is
to live and move ahead in life are all in play.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>He's no longer a young teen, struggling with addictions and bad choices,
and the labels that comes with the mistake he made at a tender age, the mistake
that cost him his freedom. He's earned a fresh start, and be able to move ahead
without the baggage of prejudgment and assumptions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He's not who he was, and he's rightfully
proud of that accomplishment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yes, being
"inside" has given him many opportunities, and he had taken advantage
of them, growing into a smart, sensitive, and thoughtful young man.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A young man I'd be proud to call a son and
live with me, become part of my family.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He's looking
ahead, and looking for options,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>possibilities for a new life, moving ahead with his life and seeking his
dreams.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At the core of that is being
part of family.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>So what IS
family?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, the first, quick answer is
the biological answer: the family I was born into.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yet, family can be and probably should be so
much more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Being a part of
a family is a choice, a conscious, deliberate choice. We can do that in many
ways.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>When we marry,
we intentionally create a new family, blended or mixed from both spouses' biological families, or the families each partner is currently a part.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We mix it up, sometimes adding kids and also
adding in-laws, and close friends from both sides of the marriage.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>New rules and new expectations emerge, along
with new dynamics.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>New territory
and new challenges await us as we navigate these fresh and often turbulent
waters.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>What is it that
this young man needs, what I need, in a family?<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We made a list:
love, respect, a place in which to belong, be accepted, nurtured,
cherished.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A place to grow as well as a
place that you come home to after a day out in the world, being challenged and
jostled.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A place that takes you for who
you are.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A place where there's a chair
and a table setting just for you at dinner.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"We each
need to make our own family," I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>"And the definition needs to fit what we need, creating a place
where we grow to our full potential."<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My young friend
has figured it out.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He knows what a
family is, the family he needs and wants, a place where he will flourish.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Like all of us, he just needs permission to
seek that out, and be good to himself, to find his very own family, creating
his own happiness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And, yes, its OK
to want that, and its OK to make sure that having that good family is part of our
lives, helping every one of us at achieve our dreams and live a productive,
love filled life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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-- Neal Lemery 9/30/2016<o:p></o:p></div>
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Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-24795983014451965302016-09-20T20:48:00.001-07:002016-09-20T20:48:07.812-07:00A former mentee, Eduardo Hernandez, now is a #mentor for #youth at Oregon Youth Authority.<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lBZeyuUC7dI" width="480"></iframe>Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-90159011626810700342016-09-01T09:15:00.002-07:002016-09-01T09:15:40.820-07:00Suicide: Getting to Resilient<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Five
percent.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One out of twenty.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That’s the reality of our community, our
country.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Within the last year, one out
of twenty adults seriously considered ending their life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Suicide.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is an epidemic, and we don’t talk about it
much.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Suicide talk is taboo.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Don’t go there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But, we must. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Every
person needs to be connected to at least one other person, and to be able to
reach out, talk about depression, sadness, and hopelessness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We all need hope, an expectation that there
is a tomorrow, there is opportunity for change, that our lives make a
difference, and that life is worth living. Life’s problems can’t be only on our
own shoulders.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Last week,
I was part of a workshop, getting trained with skills to take on this intensely
personal problem, to be a first responder in addressing suicide in our
culture.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Applied Suicide Intervention
Skills Training (ASIST) is a national movement to develop a first response
model in our communities.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Evidence based
models and techniques gave us the tools and the confidence to reach out and
connect with someone who is possibly contemplating ending their life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Invite a
conversation, and plunge into the “perfect storm” that is roaring through their
lives, and make connection.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When the
signs are there, find the courage to “ask the question” and begin talking about
suicide, and options for change, connecting them with you and connecting them
with resources to be able to move ahead with their lives, and regain hope.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Suicidal
thoughts have stormed through my own life, sometimes ending lives far too
early, or paralyzing people with deep depression and isolation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Surviving family and friends are wracked with
uncertainly and chaos, leaving profound questions unanswered and lives thrown
off track.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Making
connections is what changes lives and saves lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What I’ve learned in life, and relearned at
the ASIST training, is that you do connect.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>You do reach out, engage people, and show your genuine concern for them
and their well-being.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You connect with
your own humanity and your fellows, and make that vital one to one connection.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Showing
concern and empathy, and making that connection often saves lives and gives
people a new sense of hope and possibility in their lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Help make
them safe now, and help them develop their plan to be safe now.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>When you
have that conversation, make those connections, one to one.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, help them connect with others; not only with
friends and family, but professional care givers and health care
providers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Be the gatekeeper for them
and help them find their way.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The
National Suicide Prevention Hot Line, 1-800-243-8255(TALK) is a<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>valuable resource. I’ve added it to my phone
contacts.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Other resources:
http://suicidepreventionlifeline.org, Youthline (1-877-YOUTH-911) and their
text: TEEN2TEEN@839863.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Connect
with your local mental health services provider.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In my hometown, Tillamook, their crisis line
is 800-962-2851.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>All of
these services operate 24 hours a day, because suicide is a 24 hour a day issue
of community wide concern.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Help build
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>----Neal
Lemery 9/1/2016<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-91365714600711063472016-08-23T09:10:00.001-07:002016-08-23T09:10:17.414-07:00A Sweet Review: Homegrown Tomatoes: Essays and Musings From My Garden<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><a href="https://smile.amazon.com/review/R3T7QFW6ZBY6TL/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&ASIN=B01K8DCMW2&channel=detail-glance&nodeID=133140011&store=digital-text"><i><span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-size: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">5.0 out of 5 stars<o:p></o:p></span></i></a></span></div>
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<b><span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;"><a href="https://smile.amazon.com/review/R3T7QFW6ZBY6TL/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&ASIN=B01K8DCMW2&channel=detail-glance&nodeID=133140011&store=digital-text"><span style="color: #0e0e0e; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">A Truly
Transformative Book</span></a></span></b><span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #434343; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">By </span><a href="https://smile.amazon.com/gp/pdp/profile/A3PXN2QNBY26C9/ref=cm_cr_dp_pdp"><span style="color: #094fb2; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">Rhonda</span></a><span style="color: #434343; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;"> on August 19, 2016</span><span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #434343; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.0pt;">Format: Kindle Edition</span><span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">Judge Lemery has written before about his work as mentor with
young men incarcerated at the juvenile prison in the community where his family
has been rooted for generations. I had previously read, appreciated, and
recommended widely his "Mentoring Boys to Men: Climbing Their Own
Mountains." </span></div>
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">This new collection of short, powerful essays and poetry took
me by surprise, nevertheless. I found myself moved to tears, uplifted,
inspired, and even sometimes exalted as I read. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">I devoured "Tomatoes"
in one sitting. These musings will inspire readers to look with new eyes at
their own backyards and to dream of new ways to take action as peacemakers in
our own communities. Something of a soul brother to the philosopher, scientist,
writer, gardener and mystic, Rudolf Steiner (founder of the Waldorf School
movement and of biodynamic gardening) </span></div>
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">Lemery truly believes in the inherent
goodness and limitless potential of each person he meets. He is certain of the
value of education as key to unlocking that potential. He understands that
Nature can be our wisest and most gentle teacher and healer. These things shine
through from these pages even as they illumine the hearts and paths of the
young men whom Lemery befriends. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">Lemery's essays, like the parables of Jesus,
are grounded in the most "ordinary" of human experiences:
observations of plants and of birds, simple gestures of kindness offered to
those who have been left wounded on the margins of life, zen-like questions
about what we truly value. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">The most powerful essays are those where Lemery lets
us enter his "secret garden" at the OYA. We are privileged to be
there with him as he cooks, gardens, plays cards, laughs and sometimes cries
with --but most of all listens to -- these young men, some of them serving long
years in prison for offenses committed as juveniles. We are allowed to share
Lemery's sorrow at how much betrayal, neglect and suffering too many children
endure. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.0pt;">And then we discover with him that seeds of Hope are miraculously still
present, even in the dark, cold winter soil of these lives -- just waiting for
the warmth of kind attention and rays of compassion in order to grow and to
reach for the Light. This book encourages us to remember that we can each
create something beautiful, something that will nourish others and ourselves,
through the work of our own hands, provided we value and sharpen our unique
gifts that are our "garden tools."<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-31629765059395441102016-08-14T16:02:00.000-07:002016-08-14T16:02:04.531-07:00Mundane Tasks<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It was a busy
day in the prison garden on a hot day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We took on a few weedy flower beds and set to work, creating several
wheelbarrow loads of weeds, and unburied dozens of flowers and herbs from the
lush growth of summertime weeds.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They
had gotten a head start on us with stretches of warm weather and summer
showers.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Our work was
made lighter by the telling of stories and knowing that fresh shortbread and
warm rhubarb and strawberry sauce with ice cream awaited us at the end of the
class time. The teacher always has a way of motivating the crew.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>At the end of
the first hour, we stored our tools, dumped our weeds and washed up for our
next activity: flower arranging.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I saw looks of
skepticism on the faces of our young gardeners as one of the other volunteers
brought out the floral arranging bases and foam blocks.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Soon, their hesitant looks turned serious, as
they began to plan their individual works of art. Once again, the gardening
class offered something new and exciting, challenging them to use their talents
and grow their skills. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The young
gardeners were busied themselves fashioning their own arrangements from the
piles of shrubs, herbs, and mid summer flowers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They put their individual touches to their
work, and soon, there was a lovely selection of beautiful flower arrangements
in the center of the table.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Even the most
hesitant young florist immersed himself into the project.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Conversations and questions about texture,
color wheels and flower selections filled the air as they set to work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The hoop house,
our schoolroom, filled with many of their propagated works, became a florist
shop, and our focus could turn to our mid morning snack.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The just baked shortbread and freshly
simmered strawberry-rhubarb sauce filled our noses with delight, and we quickly
formed a line to create our own culinary delight. The promise of ice cream in
the morning also enticed us. <o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Our plates
filled, we gathered around the fire circle, and fell into relaxed
conversations. I caught up with their challenges and successes, both in the
garden and in their lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Proudly, they
showed me their vegetables and flowers, their chickens, their compost, and the
new additions to their garden.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Our time grew
short and I gathered up the plates and forks, and the glasses that had been
drained of the special iced mochas that quenched our thirst this August day.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I started
washing the dishes and was soon joined by a young man who offered to help. He
didn't want me to take on the task, saying that it was a boring, mundane thing for
me to do.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"Oh, I
rather like it," I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>"Washing dishes gives me time to do some thinking, organizing my
day and planning ahead.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"I get
necessary work done, and I also get some 'me' time," I said.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“I enjoyed the
weeding this morning for the same reason,” I added.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He nodded, his
ears taking in a new idea on what he had said was a minor task, not worthy of
my time.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"It's not a
minor thing," I said, "Cleaning up helps everyone, and builds
community.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Every job is important."<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He nodded.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"I guess so,"
he said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>"I never thought of it
that way."<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"I see what
you mean," he said. "Even though it doesn't seem like an important
job, it really is."<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Our time was up.
Class was over and he needed to go.<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"I'll
finish this up," I said.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>"I
promise not to have too much fun."<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>He laughed.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>"Do some
thinking for me, then," he said. <o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="Body">
<br /></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We grinned at
each other, building another bridge between the old guy gardening guy who comes
here once a week, and the young man, whose garden of his soul grows well in the
springtime of his life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">This
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">The
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">orange
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"> </span>--Neal Lemery<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8/8/16<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-91149397085256656842016-07-27T09:01:00.002-07:002016-07-27T09:01:43.704-07:00Be The Change You Want To See<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Do you want to make a difference in
the world? Do you want to see some real change in the way the world is, and how
your community functions? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Be the change you want to see in
the world.” (Mahatma Gandhi)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Volunteers are the only human
beings on the face of the earth who reflect the nation’s compassion, unselfish
caring, patience and just plain loving each other.” (Erma Bombeck)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Do you want to live in a better
neighborhood, a better community? Do you think the world could be a better
place? Are you tired of hearing about the troubles of the world and all the
negative political rhetoric?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Are you
frustrated that things are getting worse, and there’s nothing you can do that
would make a difference? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Then, get involved and volunteer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Connect with a person, help them out, and
make a difference.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Take a few minutes,
an hour, maybe a day, and offer your talent.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Pay attention to someone, work together on a project, or simply have a
conversation and offer a kind ear, a helping hand.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Find a group where you can get
involved.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or do something on your own. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">It can start with just a simple
conversation at the grocery store or with a neighbor, a few kind words, and
maybe a helping hand.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">Volunteers are at the center of our
community life. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">Our schools, churches, community
festivals and gatherings, museums and parks are staffed by volunteers. Much of
what happens around here would quickly fade away without dedicated volunteers.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>On a more personal level, our
volunteers are helping an elderly neighbor with their yard work, or bringing
them a meal.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Others tutor a child, or
help out at school or church.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
possibilities are endless. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Our community calendar in the local
paper is filled with activities run by volunteers, working to make this
community a better place to live.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I see the impact of volunteerism
everywhere.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Without them, our welcome
mat wouldn’t be as inviting, and as enjoyable for our visitors.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our youth and our seniors wouldn’t be as
integrated into our social fabric. Our community wouldn’t be nearly as vibrant
and supportive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Look around you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Volunteers make a difference, and they change
lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I volunteer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I find a project, I connect with a person,
and pay attention to them, and put action into my caring for their
wellbeing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I make a difference and my
heart is filled with a sense of purpose, a sense of accomplishment. My
volunteer work at the local youth prison and with master gardeners gives me a
sense of purpose, and helps change people’s lives for the better.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>In volunteering, I become an
instrument of change.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am part of the
solution to a small part of the world’s problems, rather than a person who just
sits back and complains. I have a purpose, and become a voice for doing good.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">The payback for me is amazing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What I give I receive back tenfold.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I feel better about myself, I contribute, I
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Volunteerism is all about health, my
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">I can even stand to watch the evening
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problems and get caught up in all drama. I’m not the passive listener, who can
easily say the world is a miserable, hopeless place. Instead, I am part of the
answer, an agent of positive change.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">---Neal Lemery, July 26, 2016<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-22796213853909691372016-07-07T09:07:00.000-07:002016-07-07T09:07:24.323-07:00We Are All Immigrants<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;"> </span>We
Are All Immigrants<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We all came from somewhere
else.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Maybe not in this generation, but
somewhere in the not too distant past, we came from somewhere else. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>This week, my country celebrated its
political beginnings, a time of rebellion and war, a time of rising up against
an imperial, oppressive power, and going ahead on our own. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>America was a different place in
1776, thirteen separate colonies. Slavery was an accepted economic reality, and
times were hard.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Only white men who
owned property could vote, and earning a living meant hard physical labor and
going without much of what we would think are necessities.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Back then, we welcomed immigrants:
new blood, new energies, new ideas.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We
needed more farmers, more merchants, more people in the cultural melting pot we
have come to know as America.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, the
America today is a result of all of those waves of immigrants, and the optimism
and challenges that brought our ancestors here for a new beginning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>On our nation’s birthday, just
before my neighbors decided to shoot off their fireworks at dusk, a photo
showed up on my phone.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My friend had
landed at an American airport, and he had just passed through immigration and
customs.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The photo told the story: his face ablaze
with the biggest smile. He held a paper stamped with the date, and the words
“inspected”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was official.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was now a documented resident of the USA,
a big step to becoming a citizen.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Becoming a citizen in this country
now is a challenging, difficult journey, far different than when my dad made
the trip to the local courthouse, filled out a form, and quickly became
“legalized”, a citizen.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My friend’s journey is longer, more
convoluted.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It involves a lot of
expensive paperwork, and a flight to another country and back again.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, he’s only halfway done with the process,
even though he came here when he was seven years old. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Now, years later, he’s a college
student, and has a career, a marriage. He is finding his way, focused on a
profession, giving back to his community, showing his younger siblings they,
too, can live the American dream.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>His story is my family’s story,
too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This anniversary day of
independence, of throwing off the oppression of an unjust government, the
shackles of poverty and hopelessness, of coming to a new land and being able to
work hard and make a new, better life for yourself and your family, is the
American story.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">It is my story, and now, it is my young
friend’s story.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Some of my ancestors left the
sweatshops of an English woolen mill, becoming farmers in their new land,
working as farm laborers on an unforgiving Iowa farm in the Midwestern heat.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They became citizens, raising a new generation
of farmers, Americans. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">They took the Oregon Trail, finding a new
land, and their own farm, becoming homesteaders, new Oregonians.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As a child, I heard my grandmother tell the
stories of carving out a farm in the forest, a winter spent in a leaky shack
with a canvas roof.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The next summer,
they built a cabin and a barn, herding their new cows for a week through the
forest to their new farm.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">After the barn and the cabin, they built
a school, taking their hard earned money to hire a teacher and educate their
kids. Those immigrants, those refugees from an English woolen mill, they built
a new life in a new world.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My grandfather came here, too, yet
another immigrant, fresh from a prisoner of war camp after the First World
War.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There was nothing for him where he
had come from, except poverty and disease.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Coming to American offered hope, opportunity, a new beginning. He, too,
worked as a farm laborer, learning English after a long day, taking the steps
to become a citizen.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>On the other side of the family,
there are other stories, of pulling up stakes and moving to a new land, the
promise of education, the value of hard work and adjusting to challenges, the
possibilities that came with America’s promise.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Looking back, I see that all my
family were immigrants.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Coming to
America, making your life better, working hard, it was who we were, and who we
are.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Looking around, I see that my town
was built by the sweat and commitment of immigrants, newcomers who didn’t take
opportunities for granted, but were willing to work and make this community
their home.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>American immigration isn’t just
Ellis Island and the Statue of Liberty.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Not eighty miles away from here, over 100,000 immigrants came to Oregon
through the Knappton Quarantine Station on the Columbia River, from the 1880s
to the 1920s.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are literally a nation
of immigrants, refugees seeking a better life.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>They came seeking what my friend
wants: opportunity, freedom, a chance to be part of a great freedom-loving
nation.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We celebrate the Fourth of July, and
in doing so, we also celebrate our history of welcoming others, to make this
nation even stronger, even more a land of opportunity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My family all wanted the same thing:
opportunity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They wanted justice, and
freedom from violence and a dead-end, oppressive life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They wanted a chance to prove themselves, and
make a better life for their kids.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They
were willing to work hard, and make sacrifices.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">--Neal
Lemery, July 6, 2016cr<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-81666767169238985702016-05-26T12:41:00.003-07:002016-05-26T12:41:46.530-07:00Getting Sober<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span>Getting
Sober<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">I’ve lived in the same small town almost all
of my life, and we’ve always been riddled with the demons of addiction and
wanting to find the magic wand of sobriety and recovery.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">Much of my professional life in the law, and
many of the conversations I have, even now, has been about people finding
meaning in their lives and working on getting sober.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Addiction was certainly the “meat and potatoes”
in my legal career.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">Our society is riddled with addiction, in all
its crazy forms and actions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You say
“addict” and we think alcohol and drugs.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Insidious and destructive as those addictions are, there are others,
equally powerful, equally destructive of our souls and our community.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">The list of dangerous, habit-forming thinking
and actions is long; the list of destructive results is even longer. And your
list looks a lot like mine.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>This cause and
effect are often unmentioned and ignored.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It is the elephant in our village’s living room. To some extent, we all
deal with it, in our own lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, we
see the devastation our addictions cause in the lives around us. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Much of my work
in the law came across my desk because of this addictive thinking.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Being the good lawyer, I worked to find the
remedy so that people could find happiness and move on in their lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>All too often, the addiction was too
powerful, too all consuming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, it is
hard to be clean and sober in a society where addiction, and addictive
thinking, is an accepted way of life and a widely accepted theology.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yet, we’ve come
a long way since the days of my childhood.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>As a kid, I was chastised for greeting a neighbor coming out of the
liquor store, or commenting about someone being drunk on the street and asking
“why”. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We didn’t have
AA in our community, and there were no alcohol counselors.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We knew there was plenty of addictive
behavior, but addiction and complacency about its destructive ways simply
wasn’t mentioned in polite society. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I am so
grateful for Betty Ford coming out publicly, talking about her addiction to
alcohol and opioids and how inpatient treatment transformed her life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At last, it was politically correct to talk
about this taboo topic.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Recently, I’ve
had deep conversations about addiction, and turning our lives around, becoming
healthy and clean.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s tough work, and
we go deep with each other. Reaching out and being supportive is an essential
part of the work, and the healing.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Paul Carr
writes in the Wall Street Journal about his struggles to become sober (March
19, 2012). He didn’t choose AA, but he says each of us has our own path:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">“If it worked for me, it can work for anyone, right? Wrong. The
chances that any of the advice here will work for you are vanishingly slim. So,
too, are the chances that reading "How to Win Friends and Influence
People" [Dale Carnegie’s classic book] will result in your doing either of
those things. In truth, all self-help guides are guaranteed to work only for
one person: the person who wrote them.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">“The real secret to getting sober, and to repairing all the
broken aspects of your life, is to take the time (probably through trial and
error) to figure out the causes of your addiction and the aspects of your
character that can be pressed into service in curing them. To do that, you'll
have to figure out your own list of things you enjoy about drinking (for me: adventures,
reckless spending, dating, etc.) and how you can keep those things alive
through sobriety. Then you need to figure out what part of your personality
will drive you to stay sober (for me: ego).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">“And then, as every recovering addict will tell you, it's simply
a question of taking one step at a time.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">—Adapted
from Paul Carr's "Sober Is My New Drunk”.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Today, my
community has an active, visible AA community and a variety of mental health
professionals. Sobriety and addiction are respectable topics of polite
society’s conversations.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We even greet
neighbors at the liquor store and openly support people in recovery.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yet, in our
search for economic viability, our community is busy funding and promoting brew
pubs, and beginning to enjoy the tax revenue from the local marijuana
stores.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Every bar promotes its state lottery
games, and the game terminals are conveniently located next to an ATM, with the
bartender happy to refresh your drink while you gamble.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Casinos advertise their first class celebrity
entertainment, luring us inside for your Las Vegas experience. The Legislature
depends on the state lottery to fund our schools and improve parks. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Money
talks.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">And, opioid addiction is at
its highest level ever, as folks who have become dependent upon opioid pain
killers then look for cheaper highs after the prescriptions run out. And,
heroin is so much cheaper. A loaded syringe of heroin goes for $5, maybe less,
right here in my town, cheaper than the black market for Big Pharma’s opioid
pills.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>100 million
opioid pills are prescribed in Oregon, and one out of three Oregonians has
received a prescription for an opioid. Oregon ranks near the top nationally in
opioid use and in deaths.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>More people
die from opioid overdoses here than car crashes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Medicine
in Oregon</i>, Oregon Medical Association, Winter 2016, page 12.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Big Pharma
deluges us with TV ads, urging us to ask our doctor for medications and pain
relief. Where are the ads about addiction; the social conversations about our
addictive culture?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The addiction
machine in our society is doing well.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And, you know
good and well this scourge isn’t just here in the form of the strung out street
person.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This addiction is alive and well
everywhere. It’s alive and well with neighbors, friends, and, yes, even
family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s an uncomfortable truth.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We’ve responded
by turning the addicts into criminals, with the criminal justice system busy
making felons out of addicts, and locking them up in our jail for twenty days
or so at a stretch.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our judges order them
into treatment, and the system collects the court ordered fees for all that. But
we don’t take on the tough conversations about really getting sober, or
changing our culture’s addictive ways. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I don’t have a
magic wand, and I don’t have a “cure all” solution.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I wish I did; lives are literally at stake.
But, I do know that one person, one conversation, one relationship can alter
the course in a persons’ life, and begin the change toward how we as a
community can heal.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It takes a
village, you know.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Let’s start
that conversation. Let’s get sober.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: "Times New Roman";">--Neal Lemery, May 25, 2016</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-27911924927520053792016-05-16T12:34:00.005-07:002016-05-16T12:34:57.688-07:00Taking A Moment To Be Still<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="color: #131313; font-family: Merriweather-Regular; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Merriweather-Regular;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"> </span></span><span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 7;"> </span>--by
Neal Lemery<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It was unusual
for me, just sitting there in my garden, being still and looking around.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’d had a long
session with the trowel, the weed eater, and my hand pruners, attacking the
weeds, setting out some plants, and generally tidying up my shade garden.
Sweaty, dirty and tired, I found a chair and a bottle of water and decided to
catch my breath.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>At first, I
looked at what I’d done, and what I needed to do, mentally composing additions
to my “to do” list.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>This is
becoming a job, I thought.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Gardening is
a lot of work, and I’m tired. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Maybe I should
just take a moment and enjoy all of this, my own quiet corner of the world. I
could let the sweat dry, thinking its OK that I just take a break.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Lately, when
I’ve been reading about gardening, I’m nose deep into the science and the
methodologies about how to grow the best of whatever is involved in my latest
garden project.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";">In the midst of research on an interesting new
plant, I’d come across a quote about gardening and my soul.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";">“It doesn't matter what you do, he said, so long as you change
something from the way it was before you touched it into something that's like
you after you take your hands away. The difference between the man who just
cuts lawns and a real gardener is in the touching, he said. The lawn-cutter might
just as well not have been there at all; the gardener will be there a
lifetime.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";">―
Ray Bradbury<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Take
a moment, take a breath, and enjoy the garden for what it is, I reminded
myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Too often, my time here becomes
an obligation, a project.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Hurry up, get
it done, and move on to the next task. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>But,
I am a gardener, not a laborer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Gardening
really is nurturing, and being IN the garden.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It is a time to nurture this place and my soul, to find peace, to let my
mind be still and just BE.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After all, I
am a human being, not a human doing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And,
so I became still, and sat there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A
swallow was building a nest in the new birdhouse, a hummingbird was enjoying
the honeysuckle in bloom, sunlight played on the rhododendron bursting out in
full glory.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I breathed in the fresh air,
and all the smells of spring.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%;">
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>In
the distance, a neighbor was mowing her lawn, and a farmer was tilling his
field.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Off in the forest, a logger’s
chainsaw provided the bass line for the house finch’s serenade in the snowball
bush. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The
real beauty in the garden, I realized, was not all the work I’d done, though I
certainly had provided some tidying up and structure to this little piece of
paradise.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But, I realized, the real joy
in this place is all the creatures and plants that make this their home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’m
only the host, and I only add a few of the finishing touches.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And,
I realized, the most important part of my job here, as a gardener, is to sit in
a chair, and just be here, finding my own peace, and be part of this magnificent
paradise, to simply be in this moment.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> “Tim” is fully
engaged. His hand flies up; he’s ready with the answer. This newest Master Gardener apprentice shares
his observations, his conclusions, and where we should go next with our work. He’s
read and re-read the text, and answered the homework questions with
confidence. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> Today’s topic
in our Master Gardeners’ class is soils. Our teacher gets into it quickly,
leading us through the various dimensions, the biology, the chemistry, the
geology, and the mystery of it all. And Tim is in the middle of it, soaking it
up, loving the complexity, and engaging in the thinking our teacher is calling
us to do. His mental wheels are turning
fast.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> I’m Tim’s
mentor, and today, a tutor, a teacher’s aide.
My work is easy, a few words of encouragement, an occasional
observation. I sit back and just enjoy
him for who he has become. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> A few years
ago, he was lost. He’d done his required
work in the youth prison, even finishing high school and then helping
others. But, nothing fired up his
passion, and life here was becoming just a matter of serving out the rest of
his sentence.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> Then, he
discovered the garden, and the mystery of cultivating that is the joy and the
passion of gardening. Wonderful things
happened here, and he could be a part of that.
He could be the magician and the scientist, the expert on various bugs
and herbs, growing into a nurturer and a teacher. Tim was becoming the plant, sending out
roots, spreading his leaves, and thriving in this newly discovered soil in his
life. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> Knowledge and
the ability to be a part of the wonders of nurturing life, and exploring the
unlimited world of plants and bugs touched his heart. He belonged in this work, and it fed his
soul.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> Now, the Master
Gardeners class is his focus, and he has embraced it with everything in his
being. He is in the midst of this class
of questioners, deep thinkers in the ever expanding world of common, every day
dirt. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> I help him work
through the math formulas and problems for the fertilizer questions. I watch
him realize that the dull, abstract work in his math classes is nothing like
the excitement of learning how best to fertilize his garden, and make his
plants grow. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> “This is fun,”
he says. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> He laughs then,
shaking his head.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> “I never
thought I’d say that math problems are fun.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> We look at the
slides of plants with various deficiencies from their soil, and talk about how
to correct that, improving the plants by improving the soil and the nutrients,
applying our newly found knowledge and thinking. He is becoming the botanist, the chemist, the
scientist, the better lover of life itself.
<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> He smiles, he
scribbles notes, he’s totally absorbed in what we are doing, and where this
class is taking him. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";"> Tomorrow, he’ll
be out in the garden, working his magic, growing his roots, growing into a
healthy, complete man. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";">“We do not believe in ourselves until someone
reveals that deep inside us something is valuable, worth listening to, worthy
of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk
curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human
spirit.” –E E Cummings.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #131313; font-family: "Times New Roman";">--Neal Lemery 4/19/2016<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<!--EndFragment-->Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-68149965986587859272016-03-21T13:31:00.003-07:002016-03-21T13:31:47.846-07:00Getting An Education<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;">Letter
to a Young Man Who Is Wondering If He Should Pursue His Education<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Ah, grad school.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Of course, the answer is YES.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Education is one of the few things in life that is truly
yours, that stays with you throughout your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>No one gets to steal it from you or tell you
that you can’t have it, use it, and treasure it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Developing your mind is one of the great opportunities a
person has to truly grow and become what you potentially can be in life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It is a lifelong journey, this education of one’s
self.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m a lifelong learner, and have a
burning curiosity about the world and everything that is in it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, part of that is learning about me, how I
learn, how I think, how I see myself in this world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, who I am, who I have been, how I have
been conditioned and trained to live.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Sometimes, what I learn about myself isn’t all chocolate
and roses, either.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am flawed, imperfect,
not who I think I am capable of being.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Well, good to know, so now I am challenged to improve myself, to change,
and to become better, more of the person I can be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>More importantly, I can become the person I
should be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>So, you haven’t done this before.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This challenge is new and different, and you
have your doubts, your uncertainties.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Good, because that has also been true for you (and for me
and for other thinking people) for every stage in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, it will continue.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That doubting, uncertainty, is part of the
growing process, part of the fuel that gets us out of bed in the morning, and
ready to keep learning and growing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yesterday, C*** was talking about the chicks that are
starting to hatch.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Hatching is an enormous
struggle.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They have to do it on their
own.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If they get help, then they likely
die.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They have to turn themselves in the
egg, positioning themselves in one end of the egg, by tucking their heads under
their right wing, and making the move.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Then, they have to peck a hole in the shell, to take their first breath
of air.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Slowly, they peck around a
circle, so they have an opening to push themselves out of the shell and into
the world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It is hard work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>They are exhausted. But, now they can grow and achieve their destiny.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We are like chicks.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We have to struggle, and the struggle often takes a long time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We develop, we breathe, and we gain our
strength.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Much of the work is done on
our own.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>In that work, we find that we really do have the stamina,
the resiliency, the determination to accomplish something.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We own it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It is ours, this work, this moving ahead in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Others think that you can do this work, that you are
worthy of it. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You need to hear their
voices and to realize that you are being supported and encouraged.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We all need that.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>So much of this world is about relationship.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yesterday, several of us in the garden had
the opportunity to have a lesson on “please and thank you”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One youth didn’t think it was important, that
he could just ask for something, and he’d get that, without those “unnecessary
words”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yet, those words are part of the
relationship, the social contract we need to have in society to get things done
and to interrelate with other people.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Grad school and the whole college experience is part of
that process.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Working together, and
finding the role for you that helps get things done, that brings out your own
unique strengths and tools, which also need to fit with others’ strengths and
tools.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The collective effort, the
collective process.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“College” means a collaboration, a collective
process.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You can have all the brains in the world, but if you
can’t work with others, and communicate and interrelate, and collectively move
forward with shared ideas and direction, then you are lost, and not very
effective in life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I think it’s important to have those college experiences
where you interact and interrelate, where you collaborate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So much of life is based on those skills and
those experiences.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Your guitar lessons are more than music theory and
getting better at a particular song or chord pattern or strumming pattern.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is interaction, listening, responding,
contributing, and collaborating.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>One of the primary functions I serve when I come to OYA
(the youth prison where I mentor youth) is to be a teacher of social skills. It
is how to have coffee with someone, how to play cards, or talk.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is how to repot a plant together, or
analyze a plant pest.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Something more
than the outwardly mundane task is going on.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I’m working as a judge again, part time, for a few
months.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So much of that work is about
diagnosing and healing relationships, and getting people to interact with each
other in an efficient, healthy way.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
law is a tool for that, but the real work is the human interaction, where
people can communicate in a productive, positive way.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In many ways, judging is trying to heal
society and social interactions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>And, so is the work of the educated person, working in
relationship, and being effective in that work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Bringing people and ideas together, and developing solutions that are
effective and meaningful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There’s a lot
of education going on.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>When I finished law school and the bar exam, I thought,
well, my education is over with.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Ha!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That work had only just
begun.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I continue to teach myself, to
have others teach me, and for me to teach others.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Grad school is about honing those skills, sharpening your
mind so that you are even a better teacher.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I don’t want you to finish grad school when you are still
at OYA.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There’s the whole collaborative,
collegial interaction process that you need to experience.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I want you to explore the swamp with your
fellow students, and muck around together, collaborating, interacting, and
learning about each other.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Yeah, you are great at learning theory and the technical
stuff on line and in books.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But, I also
want you to roll up your sleeves and interact with people like yourself, and
really get to know each other, and have to work together, to collaborate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, to be “collegial”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You worry about what you would do if you don’t get into
grad school while you are at OYA, and “have a year and a half with nothing to
do”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Grad school can wait.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>You are young.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you don’t find
the “perfect fit” for you now, then there are reasons for that, and there are
more opportunities in the future.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And,
your education isn’t miraculously done when you turn 25 either.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is a lifelong journey.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>In that year and a half, you can create other options,
other opportunities.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You have a unique
perspective, and you can teach others what you have learned, you can create new
experiences for youth, and you can become a better researcher and writer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You are also not limited in how many degrees you can get
in your life, or skills that you develop and improve.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I took a year and a half off between college and law
school.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That time gave me great
experiences, and I became a better, more purposeful person.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That time made me a better lawyer, father and
husband.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was not “wasted” time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I had a great job, which taught me so much
about the world, and about myself.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>We all have choices.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We all have barriers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We can all
sabotage our own efforts and our own opportunities, because we think we are
“not good enough”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yet, we have
choices.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We can choose to see life as a
barrier, or as an opportunity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>My brief time with your Aunt *** allowed me to hear her
very clearly impart to you some great wisdom, including looking at this time in
your life as a great opportunity, a time to really see your own potential and
your own skills, and do something with all that.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You heard her say that, from her heart, and you took that
message deep into your own heart.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Choose
that message as your family legacy, and build something with it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You are not wasting your time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You are, in fact, doing great things to improve
yourself and to expand your potential.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
hope you see that, and treasure all that for what it is—an enormous personal
asset.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You know how to learn.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>You know how to move ahead. You know many of your skills and talents,
and you know how to gain more skills and talents.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Most people don’t know that, and the
challenge of teaching others is to light that candle of passion and self
curiosity, so that people can really see what potential they have.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>So many of your peers haven’t lit that bonfire for themselves.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They see the water glass of their lives as
half empty, maybe even dry, rather than half full and having the potential of
being a great flowing spring of water that will abundantly nourish their
lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>You’ve told me that one of your dreams is to make or
raise a lot of money, so that others in prison can fully realize their
dreams.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You are learning how to do that
for yourself right now, so you really are researching how to implement your
dream.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That is good work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Be proud of that work, and that dream.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>This is a good time in life for you, and you are in a
good process and experience.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Enjoy
it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Enjoy the doubts, the barriers, the
struggles.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is no “bad outcome” in
all of this.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is part of the journey.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;">Respectfully,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond;">Neal Lemery<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-61992526916136087272016-03-09T18:51:00.003-08:002016-03-09T18:51:52.834-08:00Tunings<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span>Pruning
Towards A Stronger Community<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">It was my first Pruning Day, joining with other Master Gardeners and
apprentices, we set out to garden together, and be of service to people who
weren’t able to fully keep up their gardens, help them ready their gardens for
spring. This year, I was in one of the six teams who visited people throughout
the county.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">The faces of our team’s clients, elderly people who welcomed us into
their gardens and homes, shined with delight and gratitude.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our team descended upon them, clippers and
loppers in garden-gloved hands. We quickly set to work, creating piles of
brush and gardens of newly ordered shrubs and trees. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Many hands made light work, and the tasks were quickly accomplished,
along with the laughter of many eager hands.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">The real gold of the day was hearing our clients tell us their
stories, and the story of their garden and orchard, what that place meant to
them, and how their work there had shaped their lives. The conversations
turned into sermons of stewardship and reflection on well-lived lives. And,
tears of gratitude were shed for our presence, and our time and work, our own
love for their garden and orchard. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Afterwards, we gathered around the table, sharing their food, and
continuing our conversations began in the garden. There was a fellowship,
with our new friends, and with each other. The joys of gardening and
service were shared, along with homemade cinnamon rolls and cider pressed from
the apples grown on the trees we had pruned. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">We made connections, with the earth, with each other, and with
lonely people who had their stories to tell. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Community was built that Saturday, one snip of the pruning shears at
a time, and a reweaving and strengthening of the community fabric. We are all
stronger because of that work, and that time together.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Our county is a better place today because of Pruning Day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, gardens are neater, and orchards are now
ready for a productive year of fruit growing. We have cut out the dead wood,
brought light into dark places, and invigorated our orchards. Today, we have
stronger community relationships with new friends. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Tristanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00468616693121839862noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607916842817320403.post-56814112916003509802016-03-07T11:23:00.002-08:002016-03-07T12:45:11.911-08:00Pruning Towards a Stronger Community<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span>Pruning
Towards A Stronger Community<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">I’m a Master Gardener, a community service organization in my
community, supported by the Home Extension Service of Oregon State
University.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We learn evidence based
horticultural practices and share those practices and our love of gardening with
the community.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">One of our community service activities is hosting a community
Pruning Day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We offer our pruning to
folks who are unable to fully care for their gardens, and help shape up their
gardens for spring.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This year, I was in
one of the twelve teams who visited people throughout the county.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">The faces of the our team’s clients, elderly people who welcomed us
into their gardens and homes, shined with delight and gratitude.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our team descended upon them, clippers and
loppers in garden-gloved hands. We quickly set to work, creating piles of
brush and gardens of newly ordered shrubs and trees. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Many hands made light work, and the tasks were quickly accomplished,
along with the laughter of many eager hands.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">The real gold of the day was hearing our clients tell us their
stories, and the story of their garden and orchard, what that place meant to
them, and how their work there had shaped their lives. The conversations
turned into sermons of stewardship and reflection on well-lived lives. And,
tears of gratitude were shed for our presence, and our time and work, our own
love for their garden and orchard. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Afterwards, we gathered around the table, sharing their food, and
continuing our conversations begun in the garden. There was a fellowship,
with our new friends, and with each other. The joys of gardening and
service were shared, along with homemade cinnamon rolls and cider pressed from
the apples grown on the trees we had pruned. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">We made connections, with the earth, with each other, and with
lonely people who had their stories to tell. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Community was built on Saturday, one snip of the pruning shears at a
time, and a reweaving and strengthening of the community fabric. We are all
stronger because of that work, and that time together.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond"; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica;">Our county is a better place today because of Pruning Day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, gardens are neater, and orchards are now
ready for a productive year of fruit growing. We have cut out the dead wood,
brought light into dark places, and invigorated our orchards. Today, we have
stronger community relationships with new friends. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "garamond";">----Neal
Lemery 3/7/16<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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